08.19.11

Featured TMC Blogger: These Little Waves

TMC welcomes Galit from These Little Waves. She is one of those bloggers that when you read just one piece of her writing, you will be hooked. If you are looking to find a blogger that writes with sheer brilliance each and every time, you need to run over to her blog. After this feature here below, I think you’ll immediately see why I am telling you she is a true talent – this girl can write!!!

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“Mom?” I fight the noise, the light, the inevitable wake up call.

“Mom, I’m up!” Warm little hands touch my cheeks. Never-ending brown eyes will me to wake.

My oldest daughter.

Fiercely independent.

Eerily smart.

Heartbreakingly loving.

I was up late tweeting, writing, reading, commenting. I feel like I just cozied into Jason’s warmth moments ago.

And now I hear Kayli’s getting-big-faster-than-I’d-ever-imagined-voice saying, “Mom?” and blearily, I start my day.

We tiptoe through the sleeping house, make coffee and milk, gather her latest chapter books -Nancy Drew mysteries, magical fairies, tree house adventures.

We settle onto the couch, nestled beneath the sheer yellow blanket. Its fringes tickling our toes.

Kayli leans into me and I breathe in her strawberry scented hair. Her hand rests on my arm, “Mom? I love stories.”

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D*O*G My precocious five year old writes. Her print is thorough, purposeful, strong. Her fingertips smeared in a watercolor blue, her cheeks stained a summer pink.

She leans back in her chair, her feet barely touching the ground. I see thoughts swirling behind her eyes.

“I know!” she smiles pressing her pencil tip to the velvet notebook- what other notebook would she possibly have besides a fuschia velvet one? B*L*O*G!

I look into those impossible hazel eyes that match my own. They’re laugh line framed. Her cheeks are raised, her smile is wide. One writer whispering survival secrets to the other.

B*L*O*G.

***

“Go to sleep” I whisper-sing to Brody, my baby who’s almost three. We lay side by side. His fingers laced with mine, his shockingly blond hair tousled into the crook of my neck.

His eyelashes flutter, his breathing steadies. I stay with him – taking in this quiet, this togetherness, this meant-to-be-ness.

***

I’ve always fiercely immersed myself into my labels – Student, Traveler, Teacher, Wife, Mother. But today I find myself betwixt and between Motherhood and Writing.

I’m writing my first novel. I’m following my spark, my bliss, my passion.

But when I walk by full sinks and unfolded laundry, my unread-to children and my un-talked to husband, I waver. I wonder how can I possibly tread this Mother – Writer line?

And that’s where blogging comes in. Blogging is my anchor. It’s where I find camaraderie and friendship, learning and growth.

It’s where I find others with stories whirling in their hearts, begging to be told. It’s where I find my balance, and my voice.

I launched my blog six months ago to flex my writing muscles and to build my platform. But what I really found is community and friendship that takes my breath away, grounds me, and pushes me to be better.

Thank you for having me here today, Heather. I am so honored. And thank you for reading my words. I am so very happy to meet you.

Be sure to check out the blog and follow her on Twitter! New to TMC? Join us! We LOVE new members! *To be considered as a Featured TMC Blogger, be sure to comment on this week’s feature! Have a great weekend ladies!

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  1. Jessica
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    August 19, 2011 at 4:17 am

    Wow. Hooked. Makes me want to go write a better post :)

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  2. Galit Breen
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    August 19, 2011 at 4:21 am

    Heather, thank you so much for having me here today!

    I am so excited and honored and happy to meet all of you!

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    • Theta Mom
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      August 19, 2011 at 4:28 am

      I want to comment on your blog today and I can’t! Did you close the comments??? YOU, my friend are SO inspiring. YOU make me want to be a better writer and I think you’ve done that for many people in the blogosphere.

      Keep doing what you’re doing because I know one day I will be saying, “I knew her when…..”

      xoxo

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  3. tracy@sellabitmum
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    August 19, 2011 at 4:38 am

    Love seeing the brilliant Galit here. Her words are truly a gift and so inspiring. xoxo

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  4. Mama Track
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    August 19, 2011 at 4:44 am

    Great post, as always, Galit! We are all so happy you blog–your words are always lovely and thought-provoking. And your friendship and support are constant. And you ARE a writer, and a mom.

    Thanks for doing it!

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  5. JDaniel4's Mom
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    August 19, 2011 at 4:54 am

    I love her word weaving skills.

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  6. Kelly
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    August 19, 2011 at 4:58 am

    Oh, how I love every word Galit writes!! So happy to see you here my friend!! I love that your yellow blanket made its way into your post too! :)

    Xoxo

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  7. Elizabeth Flora Ross
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    August 19, 2011 at 5:07 am

    Galit is awesome! Love her!

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  8. By Word of Mouth Musings
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    August 19, 2011 at 5:12 am

    All the more special now that i have met you and hugged you … your words just wrap themselves around me as tho i am by your side again!

    Good morning beautiful Heather, should i be counting the days til i get to hug you too ;)

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  9. Barbara @ Footprints in the Sand
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    August 19, 2011 at 5:19 am

    I love that I found Galit a few months ago! Congrats, it’s so good to see you here!!

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  10. Alexandra says:
    August 19, 2011 at 5:23 am

    Galit, these are my thoughts exactly.

    How, when,,,,can we?

    Camaraderie, pushing ourselves to be better, following our passion….yet we look around and see the mothers around us in real life, those that don’t write: with the clean homes, organized lives, spending time doing what we tell ourselves is more important.

    When I feel like this, I remind myself what a different person I was 18 mos ago before my blog: I was not this confident, happy, satisfied woman.

    And, so, that eases off some of the sting, when I survey the atom bomb explosion around me. And I type with my youngest on my lap, like right now: it eases the sting– somewhat.

    All of your posts are my favorite, but this one: I’m having made into a T shirt.

    Love you, G, next BlogHer, we actually SIT and have dinner/breakfast/lunch/snack/…yoga mat???

    xo

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  11. Barb says:
    August 19, 2011 at 5:32 am

    What an awesome way of portraying each of your children at this moment.

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  12. Erin Margolin
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    August 19, 2011 at 5:44 am

    Galit,

    You rock my socks off. You totally get me/it. This struggle between motherhood and trying to find the time to explore ourselves and write and read and grow…the balance. Oy, it’s hard to find.

    Love this, love YOU!
    XOXOXOXO

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  13. Kir
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    August 19, 2011 at 5:45 am

    I tell you all the time, every time, your words CHANGE me and make me better and push me further and allow me to “believe” in the power of my own.

    This post was no exception.

    I work outside our house, so I hate putting even more time between my boys and me, I turn myself off after 7pm or so to tak them in, but I find lately, my mind is ever off. I go to sleep dreaming, writing, composing and I wake up the same way. So I know how you feel.

    If we’re here for one another we’ll find the balance, I know we will.

    your children, melt my heart. Fully.

    xo

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  14. angela
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    August 19, 2011 at 5:49 am

    Sigh…I love reading Galit…she makes me want to take a deep breath and enjoy my kids and my life and my writing just a little more!

    (Hi Galit, my friend, congratulations a thousand times on your Theta Day!!!!)

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  15. Stephanie
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    August 19, 2011 at 5:50 am

    Yes, trying to balance what I want to do with what I need to do is so hard. Balance is my biggest struggle. Fabulous post!

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  16. Ali
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    August 19, 2011 at 5:54 am

    Galit is sensational, isn’t she? She’s also a super-supportive blogger. I’d want to have a cup of coffee (or milk…) with her too.

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  17. Heather of the EO
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    August 19, 2011 at 6:13 am

    This is so lovely. Like you are. I’m so glad you’re in this crazy mixed up inspiring blog world, Galit!

    Thank you, Heather. :)

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  18. Rusti
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    August 19, 2011 at 6:40 am

    Galit’s writing ALWAYS leaves me wanting more… she is an amazing writer and her writing style completely captures me each and every time. The only time I’m ever disappointed when I visit her blog is when I reach the end of her post :) Great choice in your feature today!!

    xoxo Galit!! you rock girlfriend!

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  19. Alison@Mama Wants This
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    August 19, 2011 at 7:01 am

    Galit, as always, your words rock the page. You are clearly loved here, look at all the wonderful comments. Ditto everyone and just to add, you’re awesome and I’m so lucky to count you as a friend. xoxo

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  20. The Literal Mom says:
    August 19, 2011 at 7:08 am

    I love how you captured the essence of each child so beautifully. Congratulations on your feature today. Heading over to your blog now!

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  21. Grumpy Grateful Mom
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    August 19, 2011 at 7:12 am

    I love your writing style. So beautiful and relatable.

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  22. liz
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    August 19, 2011 at 7:33 am

    YAY for Galit! Enjoy your “Theta Day”! :)

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  23. Galit Breen
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    August 19, 2011 at 7:51 am

    Thank you so much girlfriend! XO

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  24. Sherri
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    August 19, 2011 at 8:22 am

    Oh Galit, you are just wonderful…but you already know I feel that way about you! Your words just seem effortless and they glide across my screen…you have a gift, my dear friend.

    And the dishes, the laundry…they will keep coming. But the fact that you are following your dream and showing your children that YOU are important on your own merit, that’s so important for them to see.

    You are so right about finding community. That was a perk for me, since I didn’t have any clue this supportive, caring world existed!

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  25. Leigh Ann
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    August 19, 2011 at 8:23 am

    Galit, your words are always so calming and soothing. You make me forget the chaos that ensues in my house on a daily basis, as I strive to collect these types of moments that you so beautifully record. Truly one of the loveliest writers and loveliest people out there in blogland!

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  26. Jennie says:
    August 19, 2011 at 9:17 am

    Galit, I’m so glad you’re featured here today! I always love reading your posts! You’re a fantastic writer! And I struggle with the mother-writer balance as well. And probably always will. It’s all about weighing your priorities, and sometimes the only way you can live both sides in one day is to stay up late and lose sleep. :/

    Great post!

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  27. wendy @ mama one to three
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    August 19, 2011 at 9:19 am

    so lovely! I agree 1000% about the experience of blogging– I needed a way back to writing and I have been so lucky to find community in addition– among smart, funny, real women & men. love your writing.
    best, wb

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  28. Roxanne says:
    August 19, 2011 at 9:48 am

    Galit, I always love your writing. And this? Was beautiful. Fantastic. And congrats on being a featured TMC blogger. :)

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  29. Kristen @ Motherese
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    August 19, 2011 at 10:17 am

    So glad to see Heather of the EO commenting above because this lovely piece felt to me like something she might write – and I mean that as the highest possible praise to both of you!

    I’m so pleased to meet you, Galit, a fellow writer/mother trying to negotiate the divide between those worlds and the spaces in between.

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  30. Leighann
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    August 19, 2011 at 10:50 am

    Galit, I’m so proud of you!
    You are a beautiful writer, one of the most supportive bloggers, and ooze encouragement.
    I’m so happy to call you my friend!!
    Congratulations! xo

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  31. Robin @ Farewell, Stranger
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    August 19, 2011 at 10:53 am

    Galit is one of my favourite people ever. Not bloggers – people. She’s a gem, and this is exactly why!

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  32. Rach (DonutsMama) says:
    August 19, 2011 at 10:56 am

    I must say every time I read one of Galit’s posts, I want to challenge myself to be a better writer. She is truly gifted. I can’t believe she’s only been blogging 6 months, either!

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  33. The Foodnatic
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    August 19, 2011 at 11:09 am

    Galit your writing is awesome! Congratulations on your feature! I can’t wait to check out your page some more! =D

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  34. Kristin @ What She Said says:
    August 19, 2011 at 11:58 am

    Oh, Galit. I find myself betwixt and between Motherhood and Writing on a daily basis and also wonder how I can tread the line. I find it such a paradox that something that gives me so much pleasure can also sock me with so much guilt. But the community that surrounds blogging definitely helps.

    Congrats on your TMC feature!

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  35. Practical Parenting
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    August 19, 2011 at 12:00 pm

    Galit is by far one of my favorites! I am sobbing every time I visit, but tears of joy are good and necessary. Congrats on your TMC day, my friend :)

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  36. Elissa
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    August 19, 2011 at 12:11 pm

    Love, love, love she who is Galit Breen! You bring light into all our lives! I will be first in line at the book signing. Save my place!

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  37. Jen {at} take2mommy
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    August 19, 2011 at 12:20 pm

    I love to read crisp, descriptive, thoughtful blog writing. And Galit brings it! I’ve just recently discovered her but am so happy I did.
    Congrats on your Theta Mom day, Galit!

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  38. Johanna
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    August 19, 2011 at 1:46 pm

    Wonderful post Galit! From one writer mother to another, you’ll figure it out. Sometimes the laundry won’t be folded and sometimes you will shut the door and ignore the kids shoving notes underneath the crack at the bottom but in the end you will all be better for it. They will have a role model, someone who knows what she wants and went for it. You will have the satisfaction of being that person! Best of luck!!

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  39. Cheryl @ Mommypants
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    August 19, 2011 at 1:47 pm

    SO glad you featured Galit here, Heather, because now so many more people will get to read her lovely words!

    xo

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  40. Tonya says:
    August 19, 2011 at 5:32 pm

    Galit is amazing! I am so happy to see her here today. And even happier that I got to meet her at BlogHer. She is amazing and this piece, like all of hers I’ve read, is poignant and beautiful. And oh so true! I struggle with the motherhood and writing thing on a daily basis too. Motherhood, as I suppose it should usually wins out. Sigh…

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  41. Runnermom-jen
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    August 19, 2011 at 6:10 pm

    I LOVE Galit…she is such an amazing writer! I was hooked from the first post I read of hers. So glad she was featured over here today! Congrats, Galit XO

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  42. Tabitha Blue @ Fresh Mommy Blog
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    August 20, 2011 at 4:32 am

    Absolutely moving and touching!! It’s such a pleasure to meet amazing writers and even more amazing moms on here!

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  43. Nina
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    August 20, 2011 at 12:23 pm

    SO great to see you here, Galit. I loved this post. The line I’m dealing with now (I’m okay with the writer/mother one) is the writer/blogger one. The blogging takes a lot of time and energy, and I only post once a week! I want to keep it up, but with baby #4 enroute, I know it’s only going to get harder. :(

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  44. Hopes@StayingAfloat!
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    August 20, 2011 at 1:00 pm

    Gailt,

    This is my first exposure to your writing. I’ve seen your comments on other blogs and always thought how wonderful and supportive you are. But your writing…. it is simply breathtaking! Can’t wait to follow you from here on out!

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  45. Team Rasler
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    August 20, 2011 at 10:04 pm

    I feel like you are quickly moving to the top of the blogosphere, and with writing like that, it’s no wonder! It’s delightful to read both your words here and your kind comments to others on their blogs and Twitter. Looking forward to reading many more of your words.

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  46. Kristy @PampersandPinot
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    August 21, 2011 at 1:07 pm

    Woot woot! Love the talented and gracious Galit!

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  47. Chrisy says:
    August 22, 2011 at 7:54 am

    Beautiful, Galit! You’ve inspired me to fully experience my sons today. It sounds like you’re treading the mother/writer line with grace and purpose. xx

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  48. It's a Vol!
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    August 22, 2011 at 12:00 pm

    This is a beautiful post — and I really enjoyed a lot of your other entries. You do have a wonderful talent for writing!!!

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  49. Krista
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    August 22, 2011 at 1:21 pm

    I love this woman. And everything she writes. She’s one of those bloggers that just inspires me to do more, be better and think more carefully about the words I choose. Love that. Love it.

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  50. Elaine says:
    August 23, 2011 at 6:15 am

    Such a wonderful person, writer and blogger – I do adore my friend Galit. Great feature!

    I may be the first in line to buy her book…. :)

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