Proud to Wear My Mommy Pants

Today, I am honored to be guest posting at Mommy Pants. Cheryl is a fabulous writer and she’s also the brain behind The Red Dress Club, a site dedicated to supporting writers. If you’re looking for some inspiration and the opportunity to meet some fantastic writers, check it out because it’s a wonderful place to connect.

But I must admit, writing this particular guest post was a process for me. I initially sent over my first draft to Cheryl, and then sent a second soon followed by a third revision. She continued to push me out of my comfort zone – and for good reason. She knew this post meant so much to me and she wanted me to nail it.

And I did.

It’s one of the most honest, raw and emotional reflections I’ve ever published. I would love for you to read that piece and show some comment love, for it’s the kind of post that makes me proud to call myself a blogger.

No, make that a writer.

Featured TMC Blogger: By Word of Mouth Musings

TMC welcomes Nicole, author of the blog By Word of Mouth Musings. Nicole adores this community and blogs about everything from infertility, adoption, to the daily grind of motherhood and homeschooling. She’s a super supportive blogger so be sure to get to know her better and show her some TMC bloggy love! Here is how she describes blogging in her own words: 

“On my blog, I have so much to share with you; the dreaded infertility rollercoaster, the road to adoption, our path on homeschooling, our travels of the world, and the day to day ramblings from inside of my head which tend to feature big time!

When I look at the road our lives have travelled in these last dozen years, I wish that I had been blogging all the way. I’m sure there were the makings of a book in there somewhere. So anyway, don’t wait to be invited again, just stop on by… I would love to have you!”

Be sure to check out the blog and follow her on Twitter!  New to TMC? Join us! We LOVE new members!

*To be considered as a Featured TMC Blogger, be sure to comment on this week’s feature over on her blog! Have a great weekend ladies!

Get Organized with momAgenda

The Marketplace proudly welcomes momAgenda which was founded by former Colgate University graduate Nina Restieri. As a former ad executive, Nina found herself in need of organizing her very hectic schedule and as a mom of four children, she often wondered why there were so many planners on the market for brides-to-be but none were made available for the busy mom. Hence, momAgenda was born.

Since the launch in 2005, momAgenda offers a wide range of products to help moms organize their daily lives. Nina finds joy in helping moms put the pieces of their personal puzzle together including family, career, home and social life. As a busy Theta Mom myself, this product is a must-have!

I have been an avid momAgenda fan ever since I personally used one of her products. Nina knows exactly what women want and need, especially when it comes to maintaining organization! As moms, we are always so busy planning and scheduling appointments for our husbands and children in addition to our own lives and momAgenda certainly understands that. Each planner has been designed to be fully functional with enough space and organization to meet every personal and/or business need.

I am absolutely loving the Home Office Edition Planner as I use it strictly for this blog and it is currently 35% off!

My other personal favorite has been featured on The Today Show which is The School Years. These portfolios are ultra durable and of high quality to accommodate your child’s precious art work, photos, writing and more! You can save keepsakes all in one place and journal important memories to have for a lifetime!  This really is a brilliant product.

There are an array of products to meet your particular needs such as Home Organizers and myAgenda, day planners designed for everyone as well as the Desktop which is also currently 35% off!

Become a fan of momAgenda on Facebook to stay updated on the latest organizing trends, tips and discounts and of course, follow momAgenda on Twitter as she is seriously one of my favorite tweeps!

It’s the perfect time of year to get organized, especially since momAgenda is offering an additional 10% off your entire order, exclusively for Theta Mom readers! Enter the code THETAMOM at checkout. Happy shopping ladies and have fun getting organized this year with momAgenda!

Theta Mom® abides by word of mouth marketing standards and believes in honesty of relationship, opinion and identity. momAgenda is a proud sponsor of Theta Mom and this is a sponsored post. However, all opinions expressed are purely my own and the content of this post was not influenced in any way.

I Found Mine

I met my husband in a bar.

I know, not the most romantic way of meeting the person you are about to spend the rest of your life with but I believe love hits you when you least expect it and sometimes, in the most unexpected of places, too.

Last night I was on the couch sitting next to my hubby watching The Bachelor. He usually doesn’t get sucked into this kind of television but there really wasn’t anything else on so he continued to watch with me.  An obligatory viewing, if you will.

As we continued to watch these women fall all over this unstable guy, I could only think of one thing: I am so happy to be married – happily married.

Don’t get me wrong, my marriage is FAR from perfect. We’ve had many dark days as any marriage goes through and I’m sure there will be many more tough times ahead. We, like the rest of the world, experience the very highest of highs and lowest of lows. But somehow, we always seem to come out of it on top.

Together.

And stronger than where we came from.

This relationship is a process, one that we BOTH have to work at every day. Married life is not what I expected it to be but at least I chose to live a life with the man I truly believe is meant for me; one that I love more than he’ll ever know.

Is this a love letter of sorts to the man I married?

Perhaps.

But I think it’s more of a thank you – a thank you for choosing to walk down this path with me; for loving me FOR ME, taking the good with the bad and all that’s in between. And loving me more even than he did yesterday as I sit in my sweatpants, hair in a ponytail with barely any make-up on, eating some salty popcorn watching some brainless reality tv…

At one point throughout the show I grabbed my husband’s hand and looked at him. I mean, really looked at him and thanked him for being my partner in life – THIS life, we built together.

So, to those women who continue to sign up for The Bachelor? I wish them luck on their quest for finding love – since this is a show that reminds me how lucky I am to have found mine.

Creating and Defining Meaningful Content

Thank you so much for your recent comments on my redesign. I couldn’t be happier with the outcome and I am so glad so many of you are just as excited as I am about where Theta Mom is going! In the midst of making those new plans, I finished up my own blog assessment recently. I reflected on some recent stats to get a good sense of where my referrals were coming from and I’m always intrigued by some of those Google searches. Yes, some searches are just plain nasty, some are hilarious and you wonder how a search like that ends up on your blog, but then there those searches that really seem to strike a chord…

For instance, I am still getting tons of hits on my Toddler Bed Fail post with searches like, “when to transition my toddler to a bed” or “how do I know if my toddler should move to a toddler bed” etc. These are total random peeps who are probably visiting my blog for the first time. These new visitors literally stumbled upon Theta Mom from a basic search. Nonetheless, they are most likely moms who have some of the same questions or concerns as we do – and they are seeking answers. They are looking for advice, perhaps a revelation, or the comfort of simply knowing that they are not alone.

Of course our regular readers return to us repeatedly because they know us; they enjoy our blogs because they understand our writing style, our choice of topics and they have come to know our families and our lives – but then there is this whole other element that brings new visitors to our blogs and for some, it’s for a real purpose – like those that happen to stumble upon Theta Mom looking for some resolution with a toddler bed issue.

So, the kind of search that may land a new visitor who stays for a few minutes and turns a few pages further solidified two things for me about blogging:

It proves that our writing has the potential to be powerful. We have an amazing platform in which to share our voice so make your writing count! Our words DO have weight and they certainly resonate with others, so the message here? Keep writing meaningful content. For me, meaningful content is defined as relevant, well written posts that are perfectly executed and infused with interesting points open for discussion.

It proves that we have the ability to make a difference in someone’s life, even if just for a moment. Someone may read a particular post and find comfort in our words. Or perhaps it’s the simplicity of the fact that another mom or woman has been down this road before which creates an impact. It shows that what we do in the blogosphere is of real value.

You never know what a little Google search will bring and the kind of peace you may end up giving someone on the other side of the computer screen. So keep on writing what you are passionate about – because your writing DOES matter to someone reading it.

This post will also be reflected in the TMC Network so please feel free to comment directly on this post and share: Do you agree that our writing has the potential to be powerful and how do you define meaningful content?

I am creating a list/schedule for guest posts that will run through the live feed at Theta Mom and be linked to the TMC Network. Please send me an email if you are interested in guest posting! Full details can be found on the Network page.