The Real Housewives Made Me Cry

I was watching some good ol’ reality television the other night. That’s right, I’m not afraid to admit that I love me some Real Housewives. Whether it’s Atlanta, Beverly Hills, Orange County, New Jersey or NYC, it’s pretty much a guarantee I’ll be watching.  Don’t judge, but after working hard all day (especially in the role of mom) I find small doses of delight following the drama surrounding these ladies. After watching just one hour of this show, it usually makes me appreciate my life because my own personal drama seems much less dramatic compared to theirs.

RealHousewives_BHlogoAnyway, on a recent episode of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, I actually cried.

I know, cue the violins.

The really strange thing is this has never happened to me before. I watched countless episodes and have been a fan of The Real Housewives series for years. But, it really happened. I cried right there on my couch along with the two moms who were sending their babies off to college.

And for me, it was the ugly cry. You see, for one quick moment I pictured myself in their shoes.

I had images of dropping my babies off at their dorm room for the very last time and hugging them goodbye. I thought of the words I would want to say especially to my daughter, which kind of gives me anxiety just thinking about it.

But here’s the real takeaway here – these “Beverly Hills” moms just want the best for their kids. They want to see them thrive. They want them to be successful. They want them to be happy.

Regardless of the money in their bank account, the kind of car they drive, the home they live in or how many marriages they’ve gone through – at the end of the day, these women are moms just like you and me. They experience many of the same emotions because regardless of their lifestyle or economic status because they are moms.

And despite the drama they create for themselves (and the very public lives they live), at the core of their being they face the same kind of issues we face as mothers. They just want the same things you and I would want for our own kids. This is the kind of genuine love I saw on that episode, the kind of love only a mother can have for her child.

My baby is going to be six this year and in about seven years, my oldest will be in high school on the verge of college so I know this time will be here faster than I would ever want it to. I know I complain when my kids don’t listen or pick up after themselves. And of course I could go without the constant sibling drama and the 9,000,000 other issues I deal with on a day-to-day basis as a parent – but I know as fast as I can complain about them not putting their shoes away or to please stop making crumbs on the floor, I know there will come a day you will find me crying on that floor; crying because my children are gone and I will wish for all of this time back.

So the next time I watch a little Beverly Hills drama unfold, for a fleeting moment I’ll see these women in a different light.

And as for me? Well, I am going to smile when I hear the pitter patter of small feet and loud voices coming around the hall - and absolutely revel in a pile of shoes and crumbs on the floor.

What Happened to the American Dinner Time?

Last summer, my kids traveled abroad for the very first time. They saw for themselves what it meant to leave their homeland and visit another country – a different culture, different language, and a completely different way of life.

In so many ways, I think the Italian people are doing it right – they work to live, they don’t live to work.

Italian_MealtimeFor the Italian people, family values and traditions are paramount. These things are not blurred by hours of homework, excessive afternoon activities and endless evening schedules. Eating and talking together as a family is their timetable.

I can’t remember the last time our family was all present to sit down together at the same time to eat – and really talk and enjoy one another’s company. I don’t mean the nights you “sit” together but hardly speak because within ten minutes, one kid is off and running to practice while the other kid works on homework. At dinner time, there’s no real conversation because we’re all trying to just make it to the next “thing” on our busy schedule. There’s no real relaxing family time. No quality time.

When we were in Italy, it is so obvious that families celebrate their meal. They eat their food slowly. They talk. They laugh. There is no rush to get on to the next activity because mealtime is the activity – it’s an integral part of the daily routine.

The other major difference I noted while we were there is that people are not buried in their Smartphones and tablets the way we are here. Kids are outside playing, throwing a ball to one another or playing tag. Adults sit at café’s and converse with one another over coffee. Have you ever entered a coffee shop in the United States and watched people actually talking to one another? It’s a rarity. I think you are in the minority if you don’t attend to your mobile device in Starbucks.

On so many levels, I think that’s sad.

As Americans, we are rushed. We have become a slave to the over-scheduling of our children. We are obsessed with social media and schools have piled on more homework (which certainly isn’t the answer in education) but that’s another post…

And then we wonder why we are stressed, why we never have any quality time to ourselves or for those in our family.

Well, as they say, “When in Rome, do as the Romans do,” right?

Maybe it’s time to implement some of the Italian traditions in my own American home. Less stressing over homework. Less over-scheduling. Less rushing around every single day. Instead, more face time. I mean, real face time. And more mealtime. Quality mealtime.

I vow to have dinner time mean more than just a survival tactic at least twice a week on weeknights to serve as a celebration; a gentle reminder to our family that these are moments we should cherish.

Perhaps we should all take a cue from the Italians – who certainly appear to be doing it right.

The Perfect Class Treat on Valentine’s Day

If you’re anything like me, you wander around stores searching aimlessly for some Valentine’s Day treats for your kids and 20 of their classmates. If you have more than one child, well that number just doubled and the search just got even harder.

Are you looking for a fun way to wrap up those special treats and stop the endless search? Well look no further because Lunchbox Love® has the perfect solution!


Introducing Lunchbox Love® Valentine’s Day cards!

LBL_ValcardsThese cards are the perfect way to show your child and their friends they were thinking about them this holiday! The best part is your child can handwrite names on the card as well as print their own name so classmates will know who it is from. You can also attach the cards to virtually any packaged treat to make this holiday super special.

LBLmomsVDayI originally planned on punching a hole on the side of the card to add ribbon and wrap the ribbon around each individual lollipop, but my daughter loves Fun Dip and wanted to incorporate that treat. So, all I needed to do was tape a Lunchbox Love card to the Fun Dip. Now we have some added love to our Valentine’s Day message!

LBL_YouandMemugAre you still looking for something to give that someone special in your life? Consider surprising them with a mug from this adorable new line from Lunchbox Love®. This is the perfect little gift for a parent, grandparent, or any other loved one. The mug is dishwasher and microwavable safe and made right here in the USA. Fill this mug with cookies, candy or any other treat, too! You can purchase any line of Lunchbox® Love directly from the company siteStay updated on the latest Lunchbox Love® news and promos on Twitter and Facebook. Follow the hashtag #LBLmoms to stay updated on the latest Mom Panel news.

Say Please, Inc. was founded by Judi Willard, a mom of two and licensed psychotherapist. Lunchbox Love® has been seen on Good Morning AmericaThe Today Show, and The Wall Street Journal. Parents love this product because of the positive messaging that helps boost a child’s self-esteem.

Theta Mom® abides by word of mouth marketing standards and believes in honesty of relationship, opinion and identity. As the Brand Ambassador for Say Please, Inc., I received Valentine’s Day Lunchbox Love® product to facilitate this review. However, all opinions expressed are purely my own and the content of this post was not influenced.

The COMM Search is On: Paid Blogging Opp

I absolutely love when I have exciting news to share, especially when it’s a paid blogging opportunity for my fellow bloggers! As you may know, I have been an avid spokesperson for the brand momAgenda® for nearly four years. Part of my job as a brand ambassador is to lead and manage an amazing, talented team of women: Council of Media Moms – and Nina and I are at it again, we are looking to expand the team!


Not a mom? No worries! We are also seeking influential women to help market the myAgenda product line, especially those bloggers that fulfill any of the following blog niches:

Mom Bloggers

Wedding/Bridal Bloggers

Fashion Bloggers

Foodie Bloggers

Design Bloggers

Fitness Bloggers

Craft Bloggers

Business Owner Bloggers

Frugal Bloggers

Finance Bloggers

Tech Bloggers

Travel Bloggers

Council of Media Moms is an online initiative that was established to garner important insight into the needs and wants of the momAgenda® community. The brand strives to cultivate a supportive community of bloggers that embraces this mission and is dedicated to high standards of integrity in the digital space.

Are you interested in this paid opportunity? Of course you are!

We are currently accepting applications now through Feb. 27th. For compensation information, full details about this program and the benefits of being a member of COMM, be sure to check out the momAgenda website.

***Please help us spread the word about COMM on social media. Tag any of your updates, posts, and photos with #momAgendaCOMM  On Twitter, copy/paste the following to tweet as often as you like:

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New Launch of Theta Mom®: A Professional Mom Blog

Several years ago I bid farewell to my graphic girl, the stroller chick who was pushing a baby carriage that was closely tied to my blog. But the problem surfaced when I no longer had babies at home to write about anymore, so the graphic of the woman pushing the baby stroller no longer fit me or my personal blog. My children were growing up and I was growing up, too.

As I mentioned recently, I am once again evolving alongside of this blog.


Welcome to the new and improved Theta Mom® where you’ll find everything from parenting tips, educational expertise, lifestyle and tech trends, blog advice and support for women in business – all packaged up in one professional mom blog.

That’s right – one professional mom blog.

Blogging is a business and I’m determined to continue to grow Theta Mom® into a lifestyle brand. This will be your one-stop-shop for everything relevant to your life as a Theta Mom® as we continue to redefine motherhood.

WineSo grab your favorite a cocktail and stick around for awhile. Take a peek at all of the exciting new things in this space!

With this new redesign there are a few things that did not change all that much; I still stand firmly behind this (newly updated) Mission, and what I am Aboutbut this time I share my whole story about how I fell into blogging. Just think of this update like Theta Mom® 2.0 – the kind of blog you expect to see in the year 2014. And have you tested my site on your tablet or mobile device? Yes, Theta Mom® looks absolutely fabulous there, too!

You’ll notice many new pages in the navigation bar including Parenting, Lifestyle, Education and Technology where I’ll be providing the latest and greatest information in those content areas. I also have an amazing new series lined up that you will not want to miss!!

I cleaned up the sidebar and added in some fancy new widgets. You’ll also soon come to know that I am recently obsessed with Google+. I’m finding that it’s the best way to connect with experts in your field and learn important information to continue to grow your own brand and blog. If we’re not following one another, let’s change that. Connect with me on Google+ 

Since this blog launched in 2009, it has evolved – and so have I. Theta Mom® has become more than just a space for women to connect – it has turned into a lifestyle brand, offering women and mothers the tips, tools, products and resources that are redefining motherhood. This blog will continue to give you the very best in consumer products, parenting advice, digital trends, and of course all things small business and education. Theta Mom® will provide you and your evolving role as a mother with exactly what you need.

I welcome you back to Theta Mom®, a place that enriches the lives of all mothers to help us understand the ups and downs of motherhood; a place for women and mothers to connect; a space to promote and support women-owned brands and offer the very best in lifestyle, education, business and tech.

Thanks again to the extremely talented Lauren who continues to inspire me and make all things possible – she always knows how to make my blog vision come to fruition.

Sooooooooooooooo…….what do you think of Theta Mom®  2.0???