The Rush

by Theta Mom on October 13, 2009

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I am going to admit right now that I am a reality television junkie. One of my favorites? MTV’s The City.

I was watching the most recent episode and I get all pumped up when I watch the intro. I hear the Pussycat Dolls begin their song, “Gimme them bright lights, all night..” and I think back to the time in my life when I was in my early twenties, commuting to the city, attending graduate school and loving every minute of it.

I actually looked forward to driving over the George Washington Bridge, overlooking the Hudson River that would bring me into one of the best cities in the world. Working full-time and attending graduate school at night, driving along Riverside Drive three times a week was my life. And I loved it.

I loved the city, the people, the energy, the rush.

Earning a degree from one of the most prestigious institutions of higher education in the nation was one of the most memorable moments of my life. But, it’s not the degree itself that makes me feel this way. It’s the experience I had while attending Columbia University that made an impact.

*All photos above courtesy of Columbia University.
Maybe it was the City of New York itself, the community, the individuals that live and work there everyday that helped to shape my experiences. There is an energy at that Ivy League School like no other. Perhaps it was “those bright lights all night…” in the city that never sleeps. Or maybe it was just the sheer passion of its students and professors that made a difference. These were the people who wanted to change the world. And I was one of them.

When I watch The City and I see Whitney experiencing all of what New York has to offer, I see myself in her in so many ways. I was single, in my early twenties, ready to take on the world, right there in New York City. It was a rush that is hard to put into words. I felt a part of something bigger than myself. It was such an exciting and memorable time in my life.

The Pussycat Dolls say it best in that song, “Got my whole life here in front of me, I’m taking over when I hit the streets…” and that’s exactly how I felt, too. I had my whole life ahead of me and the world was at my fingertips in the city.

Years later…
Where is my rush now?

In these faces.

In their smiles, hugs, and unconditional love for me.

It’s the kind of rush that no city (no matter how great) or other experience could ever fulfill.

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1 LZ @ My Messy Paradise October 13, 2009 at 1:11 pm

Such a beautiful picture! Adorable!
I agree…I used to live in Boston, and loved the city life. These days, I don't miss much about it, but do think it would be fun to live there while raising my kids. Not for the rush, but for the people. Always someone at the playground, not needing to drive anywhere daily, something fun to do within a short train ride.
Times, they are a-changing!

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2 The imPerfect Housewife October 13, 2009 at 2:14 pm

You got that right girl!! Priorities change in the blink of an eye. Be thankful for that awesome time in your life and be thankful for the new chapter that life brought you!! BLESSED is a word that comes to mind right about now ~ ♥

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3 Nicolasa October 13, 2009 at 2:21 pm

I love The City too! I have only been to NYC once and it was amazing. I could never live there though.

What a great post! I love it!

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4 Heather October 13, 2009 at 2:28 pm

Your children are beautiful!

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5 Sophia's Mom October 13, 2009 at 2:44 pm

OMG! Your little girl looks just like you! They are both adorable! Many blessings!

Now that I graduated, I definitely DO miss Columbia. I actually stopped by yesterday for a quick stroll through campus and a Colombo yogurt from Pinnacle (yum)!

Even though I live in Queens, I still go into the city for work but I absolutely agree with you, my biggest rush is the sweet little face of my baby!

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6 Clueless_Mama October 13, 2009 at 3:27 pm

Love the Picture!! SO cute. I really don't know how you do all you do! You are pretty amazing. I feel the same rush from my kiddos.

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7 Foursons October 13, 2009 at 4:09 pm

What a great way to appreciate our lives changing and the inevitable "growing up" we have to do.

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8 The Grown-Up Child October 13, 2009 at 6:15 pm

Your kids are just so darn cute!

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9 shortmama October 13, 2009 at 7:04 pm

They are my rush too…well I mean my kids are

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10 Martinis or Diaper Genies? October 14, 2009 at 7:05 am

I heart The City too and The Hills. At what age is this not ok? I say never.

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11 Samantha Gianulis October 14, 2009 at 9:56 am

What a story you have to tell them too. They will and should be proud of their Mommy.

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12 Daisy October 17, 2009 at 11:26 am

I'm so glad I just came over to your blog from The Frugal Kennedy's. I adore every bit of your blog!
And this post…It sounds like your talking about me.
Minus the Columbia University experience (congrats to you girl) it's totally me.
When that show starts up my hubby just looks at me and says, "here she goes". It's such an exhilarating song. You can't help but feel like great things are going to happen..right???
Thanks for the great posts. My daily exhilaration's are now my 4 year old twins. They pump me up every minute of the day.
I'll be subscribing to this fabtabulous blog.

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