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I was recently reading a post from Kelly at The Pursuit of Mommyness about what makes you subscribe to a blog. She posed some really good questions and it made me reflect on why I follow a blog and I would love to take this conversation a step further…
As bloggers, we follow blogs for various reasons; if you are a part of a Blog Hop such as Friday Follow, this may be a good reason to find some new reads and return a follow; there are many platforms that bring bloggers together, such as The Mom Bloggers Club where you can find blogs of interest and follow; there are other communities like SITS that encourage comment love, so this is a great place to find and follow blogs within this group…and the list goes on.
But as many blogs that you choose to follow and vice-versa, what makes you not only follow, but return to that blog again and again?
For example, you could subscribe to over 300 blogs but really only read and comment on 30 of those weekly. This brings me to the question…out of the many blogs you end up choosing to follow, which are the kind of blogs that you return to again and again no matter what? The kind of blog that if you are pressed for time will be one to visit on your list?
I strive to be one of those blogs that you follow and return to, not ever wanting to miss a post. So when I think of the blogs that I follow, I wanted to share my top three reasons of what brings me back to those blogs again and again:
- A blog with well written content that I can relate to: A blogger that posts about topics I can easily connect with is a major draw for me. It doesn’t necessarily have to be about motherhood; any well written post about a topic I can sincerely relate to will get me hooked.
- A clean blog design with easy navigation: I enjoy blogs that are easy to navigate with just a few clicks. If I want to peek into the archives or get to know more about the blogger, I don’t want to have to go searching for it. And easy navigation does not have to mean a fancy blog design, just a clean design that doesn’t take away from the content.
- A blog that encourages support of its readers: I like a supportive blogger who encourages comments and wants to continue the conversation. How boring would blogging be if you never got a response? A blogger that shows support of its readers is what brings me back again and again. And I certainly don’t mean a comment for every comment. In a perfect bloggy world this would be fabulous, but we all know how unrealistic that goal would be. I’ve tried to keep up and it’s impossible. So, how do you show support? It can be displayed in various ways to fellow bloggers: via a reply to a comment, a visit to the blog, a link back to a blogger within a post, an email, a tweet or retweet of a post, the sharing of a post on Facebook, a Stumble of a particular post, a chat on a community message board, a recommendation of a blogger to another, etc… There are so many ways to help promote and show other bloggers support, so I like to return to blogs that encourage this as well.
So now I would love to hear from you! After you choose to follow a blog, what makes you return again and again? And if you are a new follower, welcome! I am so glad you are here at Theta Mom and can’t wait to check out your blog!!!























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Twitter: mommyonfire
March 29, 2010 at 7:39 pm
Loved reading this – you nailed the exact reasons of why I follow a blog! OH – personal relationships are huge, too. We get to “know” people out there and it makes me want to read their blogs.
Love your blog by the way – I signed up for Theta Mom a week or two ago and had no idea it was so new!

Natalie at Mommy on Fire´s last blog ..Part Four: The Saving Grace of Meemo and Grandjack
Twitter: decondemand
March 31, 2010 at 7:18 am
Thank you for sharing your “3 secrets” with us.

Marie Cole´s last blog ..Sensomatic
Love this… thanks so much for the tips.
Twitter: italianmamachef
April 12, 2010 at 1:44 pm
Content is what brings me back. If I detect honesty and openess about one’s life in the content, I will return. If the writer is merely writing to impress and attract more readers, I will less likely return. I also like clean design blogs. I am not into fussy backgrounds or music. I can’t take black backgrounds either, it’s hard on the eyes.
Italian Mama Chef´s last blog ..Creamy tomato basil soup
I suppose the main reason why I follow some of the “personal” blogs I do, is the feeling that the author and I are kindred spirits. Often she’ll be voicing an emotion or a thought that I am currently dealing with, for example, Ivy League Insecurities.
Many of the blogs I follow are about the nuts and bolts of blogging, because this is new to me.
And some are lifestyle classics. Nobody does it better than Leo at Zen_Habits and ev bogue at Far Beyond the Stars.
Trece´s last blog ..Embracing My Detour
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April 19, 2010 at 4:46 am
Thanks! These are great tips. I don’t have a blog archive showing and now I think I’ll add it!
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Great post! I love getting new readers but it feels like most of them never leave a comment more than once. Although, I have not been following your suggestions about commenting back. I will definitely give that a try and hopefully gain some more feedback. Thank you so much!
Tiffany´s last blog ..Let ME Do It!
I just started blogging a few months back…thanks for the advice.
Your blog is great!!!
Twitter: angiekinghorn
May 19, 2010 at 7:08 am
Thank you for the tips! There is so much to learn. I need to learn and remember to do more of the interactive portion of the program–linking to people in the blog, re-tweeting posts, etc. I’m new to twitter, but I’ve found some fantastic blogs just from other people retweeting posts. So I’m starting to see the big picture ….
On the rocks and straight up´s last blog ..What’s that smell? Oh, wait, it’s me.
So glad I found your blog and am going to sign up for your community too!
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May 25, 2010 at 7:38 am
I follow the blogs I do because I feel the authors are “like me”. Busy moms trying to do a job at all that we do. Some are funny, some are serious, some are all over the place (me), but they seem like real genuine people.
And I want to write a blog that people follow because they see it as real and something they can connect to. Ultimately I write for me, but I hope that other might like it too.
Mama Lungo´s last blog ..LOST
Thanks for all this valuable information on blogging. I only started mySpecial Needs blog in March 2010 and all this writing and reading of blogs is so exciting. A good thing people like you can show us the ropes. Lorna d’Entremont http://www.kidcompanions.blogspot.com
This is so true!!! I just started blogging, but before that I was always on other people’s blogs and still am I love for a blogger to get back to my comments. I will definately make sure I get back to my comment =)
Since I’m new to blogging, this was such a great post. I also love to follow someone who’s blog is easy to navigate. If there’s 100 buttons on there and I have no clue where the archive box is, then this is where they will lose me. I also only follow people when I know that I will definitely return later on. I don’t “follow” just to follow. thanks for the info.
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Love your 2 secrets
newest follower:)
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very helpful info. thanx
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